There they buried Abraham and Sarah his wife; there they buried Isaac and Rebekah his wife; and there I buried Leah. – Genesis 49:31
In the beginning, it was Rachel who caught Jacob’s attention, and Leah was fighting for his affection.
In the end, Jacob asked to be buried next to Leah (not Rachel) in the ancestral cave with those who had gone before him.
Don’t look for someone who will start with you. Look for the person you want to be with in the end.