1 Corinthians 6:17 KJV — But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.
Not your spouse, or your kids, or your pastor, or your parents, or your family, or your career, or your aspirations, or your dreams, or those disappointments, or dashed expectations, or disillusionment, or the trauma…
You are one spirit with the Lord.
Nothing is between you.
Nothing else needs to approve of you in order for you to have relationship with Him.
You’re in the Holy of holies, alone, with the Creator of the Universe.
Everyone and everything else is outside of that.