Proverbs 4:8 KJV — Exalt her, and she shall promote thee: she shall bring thee to honour, when thou dost embrace her.
Wisdom needs you to get out of the way.
Your job is to promote her.
Her job is to promote you, but she can’t do it with you insisting on directing how it happens.
This is a collaboration directed by wisdom.
And even as you are involved, your job is to make sure you’re not in the way.