Proverbs 21:14 KJV — A gift in secret pacifieth anger: and a reward in the bosom strong wrath.
Intimacy and transformation happen in the secret place.
Like soil unlocking the power of any seed planted in it, that’s what the secret place does for any interaction that happens there.
This can work for you or against you. This can be used for evil or for good.
The wayward woman in Proverbs 7 uses it to lead the foolish boy to his own destruction.
Queen Esther uses it to gain favour that lead to Hamaan’s destruction.
If you need intimacy or transformation, start with finding a secret place.